Many people dream of finding their soulmate at some point in their life but not everyone is lucky enough to come across one — but if you do, get ready for one heck of a ride. So, exactly what is a soulmate? In a nutshell, this person is your perfect match (or soul) and like the soul, love never dies. It’s possible that you’ve met “the one” if you have an innate feeling that you two are just meant to be, this person challenges you to be a better version of yourself, jealousy or being away from one another isn’t an issue, you do whatever you can to make each other happy, you both know how to apologize, and your relationship isn’t just physical. At the end of the day, it’s really the law of attraction at play.
It’s important to trust your intuition and not brush these feelings off. It’s possible your soulmate is a person you lost or never met in a past life, which means you may have known him or her over a period of time that spans centuries before your souls became reunited. But make sure you’re not confusing a soulmate relationship with that of a twin flame union. Twin flame lovers are an amalgamation of a karmic relationship (lovers who only care about themselves) and a soulmate, but with the addition of some unique characteristics that define a twin flame love.
So, how do you attract love? Before we get into explaining some of the key steps you need to take in order to put yourself in a prime position to catch the attention of your soulmate, remember this: You should never stress about not being in a relationship or finding your soulmate or any other type of partnership for that matter. Trust that the universe and your higher self knows what’s best for you. The right person will come into your life when the time is right.
Adopt a Positive State of Mind
As mentioned, the law of attraction is at work, so if like attracts like, you’re going to want to make sure you get yourself in a positive state of mind if you want to attract a positive person in your life. Obviously, this isn’t going to work if you’re going through a rough patch, so do whatever is necessary to get your life back on track, whether that’s therapy, speaking to a psychic, taking a spiritual retreat — anything goes. Reciting positive affirmations a few times a day can also aid this healing process. Repeat phrases such as “I am worthy,” “I am strong and beautiful,” “I deserve to find love and happiness,” ideally in front of a mirror.
Implement Self-Care Every Single Day
This exercise goes hand-in-hand with the previous one because if you’re not taking care of your self, you’re apt to be cranky, tired, unhealthy, ungroomed, stressed, and living in a pigsty because you’re too depressed to care. And, you guessed it, you’ll only attract a person with the same qualities. Make it a point to implement self-care into your schedule every single day. This means not letting grooming and hygiene fall to the wayside, getting enough sleep, eating a well-balanced diet, exercising (even a walk on your lunch break counts), and taking time for personal stress-relieving activities like meditation, journaling, reading — basically anything that gives you pleasure.
Do Something That Challenges You
Not only is living your life in autopilot mode boring, but it precludes you from growing spiritually, emotionally, and physically. Break the cycle by doing something challenging — maybe even something that scares you a little bit. Consider launching that small business you’ve been dreaming about, try a new sport, learn a foreign language, take a vacation alone. This is a confidence-building activity that will help open your mind as well as your heart.
An open-mind can open doors so make an effort to see things from a different perspective. This is not to say you have to adopt an entirely new belief system, it simply means it will help you open your eyes to see the world and other individuals in a different light. Some ways to help you be more open-minded include pinpointing an area to develop, resisting the urge to argue when you don’t agree with someone’s opinion, asking questions, making new friends, staying social, and getting out of your comfort zone.
Before you can love someone else (and vice versa), it’s pertinent that you love yourself first — this is key for all relationships, but especially soulmate love. While your soulmate is a person who will help heal, help, teach, and complete you, they can’t change you, make you more motivated, or even happier if you’re not happy with yourself.
Speak to a Psychic
If you’re having problems attracting love, try seeking psychic love advice. Just like a doctor or lawyer, psychics specialize in various practices and topics, such as love and relationships. It’s in your best interest to choose a psychic who specializes in matters of the heart as they are more attuned to the feelings, emotions, and chemistry. Furthermore, they can also help you identify roadblocks that are preventing you from having a chance of attracting your soulmate.