Don’t just sit around waiting for love to come your way this Valentine’s Day; try manifesting it instead! Finding love isn’t about being lucky, rather, it’s how you choose to put yourself out there that makes all the difference in the world. Who needs cupid’s arrow when you can create your own destiny? While there’s absolutely nothing wrong with being single on February 14 (or any other day of the year for that matter), here are a few ways you can manifest your perfect Valentine’s Day love — ideally, one that will be with you for years to come.
Follow the Law of Attraction
Did you ever hear of the phrase “like attracts like?” That’s called the law of attraction. You may not realize it, but you can make the physics of energy work in your favor. The vibrations you send to the universe each second through your thoughts and choices work like imperceptible magnets linking like energies. In other words, you get back what you put out into the universe. So, if you’re a negative nelly who’s unconvinced that love will come your way, it’s likely that you’ll experience delays and negative experiences. Take a look in the mirror; do you like what you see? If not, use journaling and meditation as tools to help you let go of unhealthy patterns and internal fears. When used in a positive light, the law of attraction can help you find the right partner.
Trust Your Gut
Everyone is on their best behavior during the honeymoon phase of a relationship, however, it’s important that you practice active patience in order to really get to know someone because it’s all too easy to get caught up with physical attraction, chemistry, and the butterflies that are fluttering around in your stomach. Make a dubious effort to see this new person in your life objectively. Have an honest conversation with yourself and ask some important questions: Do you trust this person? Do they bring value to your life? Do they support you and lift you up? How do you feel when you’re together and apart? Trust your gut and avoid ignoring your instincts in an effort to keep love alive — it’s likely that your glorified efforts will backfire regardless.
Set an Intention
Similar to the law of attraction, the universe responds to your intent and it determines the outcome based on your actions. For example, you never want to have kids, so it’s probably not a good idea to stay with a partner whose dream is to have a big family. By doing so, you’re sending the universe the message that you’re content with being in a relationship that doesn’t align with your goals, hopes, wants, and needs. Set a clear intention and stick to it — you may even need to spend some time by yourself in order to craft a clear message.
Love Yourself First
Perhaps one of the most important lessons to remember about attracting love is that you have to love yourself first. After all, if you don’t believe you’re wonderful, why would anyone else? Self-love isn’t about being cocky, rather it’s about feeling proud and confident, trusting yourself, implementing self-care, and always striving to be a better version of yourself. Happiness is a choice and you’re the only one who can implement the positive changes necessary to live your best life.
Get a Psychic Love Reading
If you’re still feeling stuck, a psychic love advisor can help you uncover hidden roadblocks that are keeping you from manifesting love. Perhaps it’s something that’s right under your nose that’s easy to fix or maybe there is a major life change in the works that will require your attention. Sometimes you can’t figure everything out on your own, so allow one of our advisors to give you the clarity that you need.